Let’s assume we’re all on the same page: There’s nothing like getting a gift, but giving is nice, too. And, you’re going to be very organized about it this year, so it’ll be a lot easier and a much better experience than it has been. If only I followed my own advice! I should have gotten this post out earlier so it could be a bigger help to more people, but let’s not focus on what could have been. There’s still time to avoid a mad dash for gifts, so let’s continue.

So, you’ve made your lists, you’ve checked them twice. Sorry- couldn’t help myself there. Okay, back to business! The lists: you know who to shop for and you have some idea of what to get each of your “giftees.” You’ve organized lists of gift categories so you can stay focused, and now it’s time to get into the trenches. You might think you’ll save time if you plan to shop from home, but don’t we all know how easy it is to get sucked into the time vacuum when you’re shopping on line? Who among us can honestly say they never wasted two hours just buying shampoo from Target.com? Right, thought so! So budget time for shopping and stick to it. If you go out to stores, know what to expect based on when and where you plan to go and be patient. I’m talking to all of us, especially myself, when I say “KEEP IT TOGETHER!” It can be crazy out there! Take a water bottle so you don’t get dehydrated. I mean it- shopping for hours can be like running a marathon!

Once you can cross everything off your list, take a deep breath and do a happy dance. You deserve it! You’re done with the hard part and all you have to do now is just finish up. Hopefully, you were able to order most gifts wrapped or get them wrapped in the store. If not, maybe you’re one those smart, organized people who always has a stash of wrapping supplies on hand. Or maybe you were smart enough to include wrapping supplies in your shopping. Either way, get to work on that wrapping and soon you’ll be all done. Then, sit back and relax and look forward to the happy faces of your loved ones opening the gifts you’ve so thoughtfully prepared for them. (And hopefully opening a few good ones yourself!) And if all else fails- remember there are always gift cards! You can run to your local Walgreen’s or similar store and choose from a large selection. Tie them with a festive ribbon and that’s a great holiday gift anyone can enjoy! Happy Holidays!